I am an independent woman i like taking care of myself an my kids, but ive come to realize sometimes i have to accept help, i cant always do everything on my own. I am a giver but i have very little to(never money i never have that but items or a helping hand) give if i could id help everyone who needed it. I grew up struggling and i will die struggling. I grew up with no father and my mother was taken over by an evil drug, which eventually killed her on my birthday. I have two little sisters who received all my time, so at age 12 began my journey of adult life and no more jess time. Someone had to do it but i was happy to, i did what i could to help them survive and become something, they graduated and have are working toward becoming great people. I have two kids of my own now and i have tried hard to give them everything i never had and to make sure they never had to deal with a childhood like i had, i haven't done to bad until now. Everyone wants to enter my pants for anything, im not here to judge, no one is the same, we all want what we want and do what we do, but it would be nice to find someone to care about me, really care, and not always want sexual favors for it because i promise ill be that girl that cares about you back and is thankful for every little thing you do for me even the thought is amazing. I am very caring, outgoing, straight forward, funny, smart, and again, if i could, id give you anything i could, but ive never had the chance and most likely never will, but i sure will try. I know for sure youll laugh, smile, and feel good about yourself when your hanging out or talking with me :)
What I'm Looking For
I hope to find a friend who has a great heart like mine, who doesnt want sexual favors for helping someone, and who has some similar views as i do doesnt have to be the same though. I would greatly appreciate some financial assistance due to my current situation, but its not required and/ or doesnt have to be forever. Life is short and ive experienced alot more than others my age. I want to be able to call someone and build a friendship, to be able to ask "hey can you please help me through this hard time", without making me feel guilty or throwing sexual favors in my face. If you want to be a warm heart and just stick around for a short time then ok, that's who you are, we can just be friends for that time. But whoever comes and saves me id like to keep apart of my life forever. I want to go hang out occasionally and smile, laugh, feel cared for, told i am one of a kind and be given that feeling i am someone special i guarantee you'll see yourself feeling just a special as you make me feel.